What is a social?

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At Disruptive Events, we create stylish, relaxed, and totally judgment-free socials for people exploring the ethically non-monogamous and swinging lifestyle. Our meetups are hosted in carefully selected, secure bars and venues across the UK — places that feel welcoming, intimate, and just a little bit exciting.

Think of our socials like your favourite night out — but better. You're surrounded by people who actually get you. There's no pretending, no tiptoeing around conversations. Just real, open-minded individuals and couples coming together to connect, share stories, flirt a little, and form meaningful (and sometimes spicy) connections.

Whether you're attending solo, with a partner, or as part of a group, you'll be welcomed with open arms and zero pressure. Everyone is here for the same reason: to meet new people in a respectful, safe, and fun environment.

Let’s be clear — our events are strictly social. There is no play, no private areas, and no expectation of anything more than great conversation and good company. What happens after the event, if anything, is entirely between consenting adults — and always in your own time, on your own terms.

We're here to build community, not pressure. Respect, boundaries, and consent are at the heart of everything we do.

We ask for smart casual as a minimum — but don’t be afraid to turn heads. Whether that’s a little black dress, a sharp shirt, or something that makes you feel confident and sexy, we’re here for it. Dress for the vibe you want to give off, and we promise you’ll fit right in.