Socials are a great place to start as an introduction to the ENM/Swinging lifestyle to make new friends an connect with people in a safe, non-play environment. You will find a mixture of people who are brand new to the lifestyle as well and people who have been involved for many years!
Our social events are held in bars with private spaces purely for people attending the social. Everyone will be sent exact venue details a few weeks before the social & when you arrive your names will be on the guest list.
The dress code is smart casual and no sportswear but please wear something that makes you feel confident and shows off your personality!
Before the socials we open a Telegram chat which you will be invited too, Some people choose not to join but these are a great way to be introduce and meet all the people attending beforehand. If you are coming to the event solo then reaching out and speaking to other people you see attending is always a great way to make friend before the event even starts!
During the social you'll find yourself in a room with like-minded people and knowing everyone is there for the same purpose really helps to make conversations flow naturally. Your hosts will always be on hand to speak to as well if you feel nervous and will be there throughout the whole event to help.
After the social finished lots of people stay at the bar, Or carry on the night to another bar to continue the party. Some people stay over locally at hotels and some choose to go home, But either way there's no "official" afterparty.
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