Born to Disrupt, Built to Connect

Disruptive Events was born from a simple idea: everyone deserves a safe, sexy, and social space to be themselves.
We're not a club or a party we're a community — and we believe in the power of connection, chemistry, and consent.

Our events are for couples, singles, and everyone in between who are part of or curious about the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle. Inclusivity and respect are our non-negotiables.

Disruptive Events socials are relaxed, stylish meetups held in carefully chosen secure bars and venues across the UK. Think of it as your favourite night out — just with people who truly get you.

We bring together open-minded individuals and couples from all walks of life who are part of, or curious about, the ethically non-monogamous and swinging lifestyle. Whether you come solo, with a partner, or in a group, you’ll be welcomed with warmth and zero judgment.

As for dress code we ask for smart casual as a minimum but dress to impress, no awkward icebreakers, and definitely no pressure. Just good drinks, real conversations, and the chance to meet people who share your values and your vibe.

Come to flirt, come to connect, or just come to be around people who get it. You’ll leave with new friends, exciting possibilities, and maybe a few butterflies in your stomach.